How much is too much for a mother to be invested in her child's appearance?

2021.12.07 21:30 FollowingSalt5885 How much is too much for a mother to be invested in her child's appearance?

My mother & I had a good relationship. I know she loves & cares for me a lot & I'm thankful. But sometimes, she gets on my nerves, especially this year.
Actually, she's very concerned about my appearance & weight. I have been out of my normal weight range for more than 3 years & I'm trying my hardest to slim down. Obviously, my mom wasn't happy about it & she told me, repeatedly, to watch what I eat, eat her food, cut back on cheese & chocolate (which are my guilty pleasures), & weigh myself in front of her.
I would happily oblige if she hadn't been harsh with her words. I understand she's frustrated with me not being healthy & looking good. She also said women who are overweight are unworthy & lose their value in life & that's what she said to me. Those are her words. Not mine.
The worst part of it was when she said, 'Step on the scale'. I get very anxious as I know she'll either be very happy when I lose some or very upset when I gain some & go on into a passionate speech when I do gain weight.
Her way of encouraging me was to use her words harshly. Constantly nagging me & berating me. She would sometimes compare me to the other girls I knew & be embarrassed with the way I look in front of them, thinking they'll make fun of me (although I knew they're not that). I bet if she ever saw the 'that girl' trend on Tiktok, she'll say, 'Why can't you be like them'?
I want to slim down & be healthier. I really do. It's just that I feel like I'm setting my mom's goals when it should be me all along.
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